Fighting for His Attention?

First of all, a real man knows his role and will have no problem being in this role for a woman he wants. It’s simply not a woman’s place to chase after a man. If you find yourself chasing a man, he is not that interested in you. A man has to be fully interested to fully pursue a woman. If he’s not, then it’s not meant at that moment or not meant at all. Read on to see the negative effects chasing a man will have on you.

Makes You Feel Lonely/Unloved

When you’re so focused and dedicated to trying to persuade this person to care about you, you start to feel lonely because of their constant rejection. It’s not like you are actually lonely, but you feel lonely from them not being there. This also causes you to feel unloved when you may have several family members who check on you daily and support you in most things that you do. You may even have love from friends, but it’s just something about not having that person you want so badly that makes you feel as if you have no one due to your not being fully wanted by them. How do you resolve this? Simple! Let him go.

Loss Of Too Much Energy That Could Be Used For Something More Useful

You could be making multiple streams of income from several projects, but you become delayed in your own self successes due to sacrificing so much time to make this so-called, important person want you like you want him. It’s a waste of time, and you won’t get anything out of it. Life is too short to let so much time and accomplishments go to waste. How would you feel knowing that this person could possibly be giving another woman most of his time without her putting forth much effort to get it?

Risk Of Missing Out On Someone Who Actually Pays You Attention

You may have this person in your corner constantly trying to get your attention the exact same way. They feel like you are not hearing them or feeling them at all in what they are saying and doing to get your attention. You will get annoyed with your unsuccessful attempts eventually and so will they when it comes to trying to get your attention. When you finally fall out of love with this person (trust me…it will happen for sure), the same thing can be so for the person that is so interested in you. You will accept that you’re just not a priority in this person’s life and so will the person that kept chasing you.

Risk Of Losing Control Of Your Life

After all of these unsuccessful attempts, you realize that you have lost so much money and your sanity during all of the failed efforts. You have issues paying rent due to paying for dates, gifts, and anything else he asked you to get for him. Then, you realize you have given yourself a bad case of Depression. You are mean to others around you, you begin to cry every night before bed, and you can’t seem to be happy for an entire day. Now, you have to make some extra money to build back up your savings and go to therapy for your mental health. Now you think back to what caused all of this damage…was it really worth it?

My Point…

A man would not require you to put in so much effort. He is built to be a protector. He wouldn’t allow such stress over his woman if he actually wanted her. All that stress can cause women so many health issues, hormonally and emotionally. Do you really think a real man would want that for his woman?